I would take my time in making any kind of decision. While I know she made major bad decisions at the start she has been faithful during your marriage this should count for something and she has been trying to improve even if you had to push her too. I’m just saying don’t just jump at a decision. Good luck and God bless. It’s been over 30 years but sorta fresh for you. Making America Great Since January 1989 Birthday 32 Years T-Shirt But to a little hardbody of the 80s that was the way it was. Infatuation and opportunity. It’s not like you didn’t know and it’s not like you didn’t have decades of good times. Or maybe not if this killed the love. It’s been 3 years of reconciling and you don’t sound like you really love her anymore.
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Divorce if you have the money, if not just become roommates and start acting like you are single. If you choose the latter, give yourself at least a couple of years of being single and then see if you are better of together. Sorry, tell her you want a divorce. Believe me, this will be worse for her. She will be alone. She will have to admit to everyone that she betrayed you before marriage and lied throughout the marriage. Making America Great Since January 1989 Birthday 32 Years T-Shirt There is a poster on Talkaboutmarriage called Cromer. His wife cut him off sexually for ten years, then he divorced. It came out that while he was deployed, she had slept with a number of men and got a disease. She cut him off, which he accepted til he could not.
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Then when he announced the D, she admitted. The D proceeded, and she had mental breakdown after mental breakdown. She persists with these, even though her relationship with her children is destroyed, and her husband has remarried. Recently she has demanded that he leave his new wife and return to her. Wow! Friend, that is not trickle truthing, this is full on lying for more than 35+ years. I completely get where you are coming from. This person has turned your entire life on its head. I would be furious if it were me. There would be no love after that. She stole the best years of your life on a lie. Denied you the opportunity to make an informed decision.Making America Great Since January 1989 Birthday 32 Years T-Shirt You say that you would have broken up, but you were not given that opportunity. Why did she lie? Because she knew it would be over. How selfish can you be. She wanted you and it didn’t matter what you wanted.