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But — it took a hell of a lot of work on my part to get to the point where she could do those things. And there is still almost no discussion about what happened that does not start with defensiveness on her part. So she really does want to do the right things, but it’s not innate to her. She’s not intrinsically empathetic or sympathetic. I do respect what she has done though. And that’s probably the only reason it’s not already over. Making America Great Since January 1988 Birthday 33 Years T-Shirt This means she has done enough so you can leave without hating her. Her mediocre efforts do not entitle her to a full reconciliation. I am a pretty deep love guy, when I fall ant it is reinforced I am in love for life. I stil love my cheating ex even though I have no desire to spend .3 nano seconds with her. SO I wouldn’t throw that away easily.
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